It is and can be a touchy subject. It is almost like marmite, some people love it, others hate it. Worked out what this week’s subject is? You got it, Anal.

Personally, we love it. The more the better! But to beginners, anal can seem a bit daunting. So to stop you worrying and help you feel more pleasure than pain, we have come up with some top Anal Sex Tips!

Try Relax

Just like vaginal sex, you need to be relaxed to have anal. You need to relax and try not to be tense as this could damage rather than pleasure.

To make sure you aren’t too tense, do some breathing exercises. Try to have a calm breathing pattern as this will relax your muscles.

Wet It Up!

We cannot stress to you how crucial lube is. With a vagina, it self-lubricates whereas the back passage does not and is seen as a one-way street.

We recommend using Silicone Lube as it lasts longer than water-based lubes. Plus, you do not need to apply as much when preparing.

Test The Waters

Trying Anal should be an exciting experience. So, to test the waters, why not build up to it and start off by trying some foreplay? With lube, try using fingers or your tongue before going the whole hog. There are plenty of never endings around this area which can provide pleasure in itself. By warming it up, it will also help to relax your partner before entering.

Don't Forget The Clit

If you are having anal with a lady, make sure to get the clitoris involved. This is super important because again it gets your partner relaxed. Maybe try using a vibrator, we recommend you use the Satisfyer Layons to get your partner jiggy jiggy!

Other Toys To Consider

We recommend to get used to anal, using a vibrating butt plug during vaginal sex. Using a butt plug helps to stretch your arse hole whilst giving stimulation to the area.

On our top tip for toys is butt plugs. Trying a butt plug will help to get you used to your partners sexy stallion. We recommend buying a starter kit for you to work your way up. Training kits allow you to start slow and go at your pace.

Try It On Your Own First 

We know it isn’t the same as your partner touching and feeling the area, but why not have a go on your own? Start slow to see if you feel the sensations of anal. Go at your pace and get to know that unfamiliar area.

Let The Bathroom Get Involved

Sometimes sex in the shower or bathtub is a bit tricky awkward and the success isn’t always good. But having anal you need to be as relaxed as possible, and man feel relaxed in the bathroom. Plus if you are a bit worried about cleanliness, this will help to keep you everything clean.