I’ve been thinking back to my first Sex toy, which was given to me as a birthday present by people who were really just trying to say: ‘Hey! You’re not getting any, so here you go, now you’re sorted’. But really, how naïve of them. Had they never enjoyed solo sex or experimented with toys with or without a partner. They had been MISSING OUT!

Luckily this was a nice easy introduction. One which saved me time and embarrassment searching in a ‘naughty’ sex shop (before internet shopping really took off) and it broke the barrier to entry for me.

Making your first move and owning your first sex toy isn’t that simple for everyone though. It can feel overwhelming, and you just don’t know where to start. There is so much choice too! Do I want to start small, or stimulate my g-spot, or do I prefer clitoral stimulation, how big should I go, would a massager because better? All these darn questions! So how do you choose your very first sex toy? Well, we have handpicked our top ten beginners toys to help you understand them in more detail. Will have broken them down so you can learn how they may be the perfect fit for you and we have covered a variety of tastes, for the first-timer...

1. Rocks Off RO 80mm Bullet Vibrator

 
This simple vibrator is a really good start into the world of solo self love. It is easy to use, quite discreet and can tantalise and stimulate those easy to access areas! 

2. Bubble Butt Player Starter Butt Plug Black

3. Starter Strap-On Kit by Tantus 

4. Classic Bunny Vibrator by Bswish

5.  Luxe Purple Double O Kegel Balls Weighted 0.8 Ounce