‘How can I make my girl squirt?’

Squirting is the holy grail of the female orgasm, and boy, if you can do it and make your girl squirt - I virtually high five you! That being said, it’s not always down to the ‘giver’ and often takes two to tango. There is so much hype around this squirty business but even more around actually getting a woman to orgasm in the first place. Squirting though is held as some kind of sexual validation and giving people god/goddess status of the world of female orgasms! The thing is, not many people really know about this was of making a girl cum, and they don’t even know some of the other techniques either #worrying...

Orgasm Basics

Firstly, to understand the orgasm (the foundations blocks!), you will understand the methods and there are different ways women cum. Due to the complex nature of the vagina, women are aroused in different areas to different intensities. There are probably a good hand for (!) we can categorise here:

1. Clitoral Orgasm: The clitoris, often referred to as the epicentre of female pleasure, boasts over 8,000 nerve endings dedicated solely to sensation. It's the only organ in the human body designed exclusively for pleasure, making it a potent source of orgasmic delight. Most women find clitoral stimulation to be the most reliable path to orgasm, whether through direct touch, oral sex, or the use of sex toys like vibrators. During intercourse, achieving clitoral stimulation can be more challenging, but experimenting with positions that allow for additional clitoral contact can enhance pleasure and increase the likelihood of orgasm.

2. Vaginal Orgasm (G-spot): The elusive G-spot, a highly debated yet tantalisingly sensitive area, resides on the front vaginal wall, about 2 to 3 inches inside. Stimulating this erogenous zone can produce intense sensations and lead to powerful orgasms. While some experts argue over its existence, many women report experiencing heightened pleasure and even ejaculation when the G-spot is properly stimulated. Techniques such as using fingers or curved sex toys in a "come hither" motion can help locate and stimulate this area, potentially unlocking new realms of pleasure for women.

3. Exercise Induced Orgasm (Coregasm): Exercise-induced orgasms, also known as coregasms, offer a unique pathway to pleasure that combines physical exertion with sexual arousal. These orgasms typically originate from engaging the core muscles during workouts such as abdominal exercises, squats, or weightlifting. The physiological mechanisms behind coregasms are not fully understood, but they are believed to result from increased blood flow to the pelvic region and the activation of pelvic floor muscles. For individuals who experience coregasms, exercise can become not only a means of physical fitness but also a source of sexual pleasure and exploration.

4. Sleep Orgasm: Sleep orgasms, also known as nocturnal orgasms or "wet dreams," occur during REM (rapid eye movement) sleep when dreaming is most intense. During this stage, the brain experiences heightened activity, including sexual arousal, which can lead to spontaneous orgasms. Sleep orgasms are a testament to the body's ability to experience pleasure and release tension even in the absence of conscious stimulation. While their frequency varies among individuals, sleep orgasms offer a glimpse into the complex interplay between the mind and body during sleep cycles.

5. Cervical Orgasm: Often heralded as one of the most intense forms of orgasm, the cervical orgasm originates from deep vaginal penetration that stimulates the cervix. This type of orgasm is characterised by a wave of pleasure that radiates throughout the entire body, leading to a sense of euphoria and bliss. Achieving a cervical orgasm may require patience, communication, and experimentation with different positions that allow for deeper penetration. By prioritising intimacy, trust, and mutual pleasure, partners can explore this powerful source of sexual fulfilment and connection.

6. Anal Orgasm: The anus, rich in nerve endings and erogenous potential, offers a pathway to intense pleasure and orgasmic release. Anal sex, when practised safely and consensually, can stimulate these nerve endings and lead to powerful sensations of pleasure. For individuals who enjoy anal play, exploring this erogenous zone can open up new avenues for sexual exploration and connection. Communication, relaxation, and the use of plenty of lubrication are essential for a comfortable and enjoyable anal experience.

7. Other Orgasms: Beyond the traditional forms of orgasm, such as clitoral, vaginal, and anal orgasms, there are numerous other pathways to sexual pleasure and fulfilment. These include U-spot orgasms, which result from stimulation of the urethral opening, expanded sexual response, which involves a prolonged and heightened state of arousal, nipple-induced orgasms, which arise from stimulation of the nipples, and A-spot orgasms, which originate from deep within the vagina. Exploring these diverse pathways to pleasure can lead to a deeper understanding of one's own sexuality and preferences.

Squirting from Orgasms

Urinary bladder discharge (squirting) is one of two ways in which women can ejaculate. Prostate ejaculation is the second. But both these kinds of ejaculations are urethral as opposed to vaginal 

A woman, or her partner (!) will know when she has squirted because the fluid that shoots out is a clear, odourless fluid. If a women has pee’d before sex, no urine should be present, however if she hasn’t there could well be a little urine mixed in. 

Prostate ejaculation come from an orgasm involving the g-spot. To tell the difference you can look at the fluid as this is a milky, viscous fluid. 

There are other types of female ejaculate too, as the above are defined as urethral, the following are vaginal! Gushing and creaming. Both great names and perfectly descriptive of the result of a woman’s ultimate pleasure. Gushing is when a significant amount of fluid is released from the vagina during penetration. Creaming is something that taoists believe to mean the woman is a mighty lover indeed! No one know where this comes from, but it is a white, viscous fluid.